Thursday, October 21, 2010

Mommies make mistakes...

Some day, I hope your mommy learns a valuable lesson.... don't try to get what you want by buying it. You can't always trust someone who says they'll pay you for something after you've already started putting money down for it, because they might take advantage of you. At least they do to your mom. And don't be so in a hurry to leave a situation you are in, by jumping into someone else's situation.

Also,...three things you don't pay for.
1. Your own wedding dress, no matter even if you think it's the one you've always dreamed of.... (of course, you, Malakai, won't be buying your wedding dress. lol... at least I hope not).
2. You don't buy your own engagement ring, by making payments on it and thinking your fiancee will pay you back!) If you want to marry a girl, work at the relationship and earn her. Pay for the ring, so it means something. Let her give you nothing but love and respect. And you, likewise.
3. Don't let anyone put your name on a cell phone plan, because you will be stuck paying the cancellation fees (of $200) when you can't afford it or they leave you....

I wish your mom would learn some things the easy way, not the hard way. If I could give her advise that she'd take, it would be to let life happen to her for a while. Don't go making things happen. It's the butterfly thing... If the butterfly lands on your shoulder, he's meant to touch you. If he doesn't, no amount of chasing him will make him land.

Just let it go and breathe for a while.

Actually, she should just spend some good quality "Malakai and Mom" time. Amen.

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